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Ladies, let’s talk about how to look PRETTY in the face!❤️👇🏼

To be exact, not just looking pretty but looking womanly with facial features!

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This topic is quite intriguing to me and I’ve done some research regarding this topic.

It’s surprising to know countless factors determine how pretty and attractive our face is going to look.

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Despite the bone structures that we can’t change, we can always look more womanly with our faces with some makeup tips and tricks!

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If you are ready, here are 9 tips on how to look more feminine in the face.

Stay tuned for the last tip (or tool!) – especially for the single ladies out there.

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Enjoy loves!❤️

1. OPT FOR THINNER ARCHED EYEBROWS❤️👇🏼

Feminine eyebrows 101: Knowing the eyebrow shape difference between men and women.

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Guys have thicker and straight eyebrows with a brow ridge that creates deeper shadows

From HuffPost, the article has stated that eyebrows have been getting ‘More Masculine’ for The Past 60 years.

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Women tend to have thinner and arched eyebrows

So while getting a thick eyebrow can be trendy, more importantly, is important to be clear about the final look you want to achieve.❤️

If the goal is to look feminine, a pair of delicate, soft-angled eyebrows can boost the feminine vibes tenfold.

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So, here are some of the simple ways to achieve a pair of feminine eyebrows.

  • Trim your eyebrows regularly
  • Use a white eyeliner pencil or any highlighter to highlight the arches of your eyebrows
  • Create a softer eyebrows look by using eyebrow powder instead of eyebrow pencils so as to avoid sharp lines
  • Dark brown is always better than black (just my personal opinion)
  • Dye your eyebrows for a more gentle look

These are the rules in general, but always work according to your own face!

If you have a prominent nose or black hair, dark eyebrows will suit you more, as this can give the whole face a more united look.

Another example from the gorgeous model Natalia Castellar shows you how the thickness and shape of the eyebrow can affect the vibes.

With natural eyebrows❤️👇🏼:

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With thick dark eyebrows❤️👇🏼:

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Source: W Magazine

I actually think Natalia handled this eyebrow well because she has a relatively feminine jawline and eyes.

So things just balance off.❤️

However, if you already have masculine facial features, embracing the extra-thick eyebrow may not be a good idea.

So ladies, feel free to figure out what type of eyebrows suit you the best and find the sweet spot!

If you are reading this blog post till now, there’s one thing for sure…

You have good taste! <3 If you approve of some of these looks, please kindly pin or share some of these outfits so many tasteful fashion babes can come across this outfit inspo, thanks pretty! ❤️

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2. EXAGGERATING THE EYE FEATURES❤️👇🏼

If I can only do makeup on just one feature, doubtlessly I will do my eyes!

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When it comes to eye makeup products, have you realized that they all try to exaggerate your eyes’ features like cartoon eyes?

The eyeliner, the eyelash curler, and the glittering eyeshadows all help you to draw people’s attention to your eyes.

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So yes, eye makeup is really effective in making your face look feminine instantly!

Here are some basic ways to do it❤️👇🏼:

  • Curl your eyelashes and apply an appropriate amount of mascara (Please don’t overdo it)
  • Apply a small amount of mascara on the lower eyelashes to achieve a more innocent look (optional)
  • Opt for dark brown mascara instead (Again, details MATTER)
  • Apply natural eyeshadow to make your eyes look more pop-up
  • I DON’T recommend drawing the inner eyeliners as this makes the eyes appear smaller – See below
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If you want to look more feminine, winged eyeliner is always the best choice!❤️

It creates almost an almond eye shape, which is the opposite of most men’s eyes.

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In fact, the power of eye makeup is not just about highlighting your eyes.

If you have a more masculine jawline, it can help to shift people’s attention from the facial line to the eyes.

With bigger eyes, it makes your face look smaller in proportion as well.

For the best eyeliner color, you guessed it, dark brown or another kind of brown.

If you want to know more, this infographic from BUZZFEED is amazing!❤️👇🏼

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Source: Buzzfeed

Using white eyeliner for the undereye always makes your eyes appear slightly bigger with an aesthetic and refreshing look.❤️

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Source: Maybelline

I don’t think many girls are doing this right now – and that means this is the chance for you to stand out from the crowd and SHINE!

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To boost the effect of the darling “doll eyes”, add a tad of glitter to help open up the eyes even more!


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3. SOFTEN YOUR JAWLINE AND FACE LINING❤️👇🏼

While men have a longer, square chin, women usually have a round jawline.

While we can’t change our jawline (unless you want to go through surgery), we can always use easy contouring to soften our face lines and get a more feminine jawline!

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In the picture above, you can see we always apply bronze to the hairline and jawline so as the minimize the squareness of cheeks and face overall.

In the meantime, we also want to shift people’s attention from the jawline to areas like the forehead and chin!

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If you want to level up your contouring game, you can always use an eyebrow pencil to fill and smoothen the hairline.❤️

I know this tip sounds weird, but as a girl with thin hair, this hack works wonders for me, and I feel like my face line looks smoother.

For the ladies who want a quick fix for visible areas of the scalp, this BOLDIFY hairline powder from Amazon is the hidden gem.

Try it out!

Of course, Tom Ford’s Shade and Illuminate Cream Palette is unbeatable.

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The problem is some colors always sold out quickly.

Good luck!❤️

Another reminder if you have a masculine jawline:

Avoid wearing a high-neck top.

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It just draws people’s eyes to your face and exaggerates the jawline even more.

Alternatively, a feminine scoop neck or off-shoulder top can work wonders.

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4. PLUMPER ROUNDER LIP TO LOOK FEMININE❤️👇🏼

Well, you don’t need a lip injection to achieve a plumper lip.

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No matter how big or small your lip is, it has its beauty already.

Still, if you want to enhance femininity, here are some stupid easy tricks.❤️👇🏼

  • Draw the lip liner for a more divine and plumper lip shape
  • Apply naturally red/ pink lipstick
  • Add a little bit of highlight on the center of the lips
  • Coat your lips with a thin layer of lip gloss

I know there are countless DIY ways to make your lips look plumper on YouTube.

Some tips actually can hurt if you aren’t doing them in the right way so I rather not recommend them here.

To me, I do think drawing a slightly bigger lip shape is more than enough to highlight the feature!

And when it comes to this point, the video below is THE BEST among all the tutorials I’ve watched.

This YouTuber first showed a wrong example of outlining the lips and then a perfect way.

Watch now and see if you do it the right way!

5. When in doubt, red lips❤️👇🏼

Need I say more? Red lips are just universally feminine and attractive.

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According to Psychological Today, highly attractive women were perceived as even more attractive in red.

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So I guess there’s never too much red for the lips!

Plus, this is always an indicator of the confidence level. Bold ladies rock the red, which makes them even more appealing.

6. PICK A FEMININE HAIRSTYLE THAT WORKS FOR YOUR FACE❤️👇🏼

Ladies, your hairstyle MATTERS.

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Source: Daily Mail

If you have feminine facial features but somehow don’t look feminine, probably your hairstyle is too masculine and this balances out the femininity in your face.❤️

While technically you can look feminine in both short and long hair, if you have a more square jawline, long hair can really hide the lining a lot!

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Here are some hairstyle suggestions for different face shapes❤️👇🏼:

  • Oval Shape: Basically everything!
  • Square Shape: Long waves hair and avoid jaw-length bob
  • Round Shape: Long hair with side parts and avoid bangs
  • Long Shape: Long voluminous curls with bangs and avoid sleek ponytail
  • Heart Shape: Curly/straight long hair and avoid Pixie cuts

With the right hairstyle, it can smoothen your faceline and make your face look more womanly!

As a round-face girl, I feel like I am a totally different person when I don’t do the bangs anymore – I hate to admit but I look SO MUCH BETTER.

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What do you guys think?

By the way, if you are interested in how to look classy with short hair, you will love this article!

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7. ALWAYS SHOW YOUR NECKLINE (ALWAYS)❤️👇🏼

Instead of hiding both sides of the jaw with long hair, magically, it looks better when you show one side of your neckline!

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By tucking one side of the hair behind the ears, your face looks naturally smaller visually as the neckline draws people’s attention.❤️

This also explains why we always look slimmer when we wear an off-shoulder dress than a round-neck top.

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On top of that, the neckline is one of the most feminine spots among our body curves so it’s also flattering to show our neckline.❤️

It’s a bit sexy but in a classy way, LOVE it.

Another way to contour face shape: wear longline earrings.

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Not only it’s ultra feminine, but the earring just makes your face appear to be smaller by comparison.

8. MAINTAIN SMOOTH MOISTURIZING SKIN❤️👇🏼

Last but not least, let’s not forget our canvas – the skin!

Men tend to have rougher and drier skin with less trimming, that’s why smooth moisturizing skin is always feminine to look at.

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Face skincare is a broad topic, without diving too deep, here are some basic tricks!

  • Wear sunscreen every day (Even if it’s a rainy or a cloudy day) to prevent wrinkles and more skin problems – a total game changer
  • Clean and moisturize your skin daily
  • Do deep cleaning once or twice a month
  • Eat less junk food and oily food to prevent acne (You are what you eat)

A good skin condition not only shows our femininity but also reflects how healthy we are.

Trust me, people can really tell if are you putting your life together just by how you take care of your appearance and body!

TOOLS YOU NEED TO ENHANCE YOUR FEMININITY❤️👇🏼:

For eyebrows❤️👇🏼:

  • Benefit High Brow Glow Pencil (Many ladies are already using this brand so I’m not going introduce it, but really, I LOVE the darling champagne-pink shade)
  • Eyebrow / Facial Razor ( I’ve tried a few pricy brands but I just think the $4.99 one already works wonders for me)

For eyes❤️👇🏼:

  • Dark brown mascara is always better than black ( For girls who wanna look good but without trying too hard)
  • White eyeliner for the corner for the lower lid (For girls who wanna look slightly innocent)
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For lips❤️👇🏼:

  • Natural Lips Enhancer ($9) (You’ll be pleasantly surprised with this little tool, but as a disclaimer, I don’t use it every day, I will use it before the first date lmao)

For skins❤️👇🏼:

Sorry, not gonna recommend anything The products that work for me may not work for you.

But if you have super dry skin like me, I’d say give this product a go.

This is so random… BUT

  1. Your body is a masterpiece that carries you through life’s journey—honor it with the love and respect it deserves.
  2. Beauty has no single definition; you define what beauty means through your uniqueness and authenticity.
  3. Your worth extends infinitely beyond your appearance—your kindness, strength, and spirit are what truly shine.
  4. The space you occupy in this world is yours by right; never apologize for existing exactly as you are.
  5. Your body tells the story of your life—every mark, curve, and change is a chapter of resilience and growth.
  6. You deserve to speak to yourself with the same compassion and tenderness you would offer to someone you love.
  7. Nourishing your body and soul isn’t selfish—it’s a necessary act of self-respect and care.
  8. The parts of yourself you’ve been taught to hide may be exactly what makes you magnificently unique.
  9. Your body is not a project to be fixed—it is a vessel for experiencing the fullness of life’s joys.
  10. You are allowed to love yourself completely today, not when you reach some future version of yourself.

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9. Pheromone perfume for feminine vibe❤️👇🏼

Regardless of your facial features, you look attractive in your own way!

A side topic If you care the sexual attraction, this Pheromone perfume from Amazon is such a gem.

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From THE HEALTHY, Pheromones do have effects on ourselves and on other people nearby and trigger the desire.

I bought this Pheromone perfume myself and all I can say is – it works for me and makes me feel better!❤️

Of course, these are not magic pills and from the Amazon reviews – seems females have more success with this unisex pheromone perfume compared to males!

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10. Dress feminine with the right clothes

Alright, so now you know how to look feminine in the face. Well, make sure your outfit keeps up with that as well!

If you are looking for more feminine outfit ideas, check out my LTK account down below – see you there pretty! 💖

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If you think this article is useful, I’m pretty sure you will LOVE the tips I offer in the articles below – Check them out loves!❤️👇🏼

See you!


FINAL THOUGHTS❤️👇🏼:

So here are the 9 main ways when it comes to how to look pretty in the face naturally! Let’s have a quick recap:

  • Opt for thinner arched eyebrows
  • Exaggerating the features of eyes
  • Contour your face to soften the lining of your face
  • Do a plumper, rounder lip
  • Always show your neckline
  • Maintain smooth and moisturizing skin

What do you think about these tips? I hope you find these helpful!

When I was young, I always wondered why women look “prettier” after makeup but now I finally understand, that all these makeup and beauty hacks are helping us to enhance our feminine face structure!

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It’s really intriguing to me and I hope so, do you!

Anyways ladies, whether you have a square face or round face, small eyes, or big eyes, we are all perfect imperfections. Of course, there’s nothing wrong with bettering ourselves.

But we always have to realize that we are all beautiful in our own ways! (Virtual Hug)

If you are interested in topics like elegant and feminine outfit styles, here are some related reads! See you there!

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Can we look feminine without makeup? My straight answer is a big fat YES!

When it comes to femininity, it’s a set of attributes and behaviors that are way more than just focusing on makeup.

Looking feminine is the soft combination of outer beauty and inner beauty.

how to look feminine without makeup

It’s the combined traits of a gentle, kind, classy lady that is timeless regardless of age.

So yes, you can look feminine without makeup for sure, and here are the 10 tips to express your femininity!

Enjoy!

1. TAKE CARE OF YOUR HAIR

Whether you have short hair or long hair, taking good care of your hair can greatly enhance your femininity.

Despite the fact that shiny thick healthy hair enhances your appearance and outlook, it’s also a great sign to show people you are taking good care of yourself.

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Let’s be honest ladies, we all know that hair care isn’t easy at all, it does require a great amount of time and effort.

Trust me, your hair can absolutely reflect you are an elegant lady who knows how to treat yourself well and pays a little bit extra effort to look more put together with healthy hair.

After all, femininity is all about details!

Here are some simple ways to take care of your hair:

  • Trim your hair every 3-4 months ( Cut your split ends )
  • Don’t wash your every day as it will wash away all the healthy oil in the hair ( Except the workout days)
  • Always brush your hair
  • Massage your scalp to promote hair growth
  • Use chemical-free shampoos
  • Deep conditioning your hair every 2 weeks

Of course, these are just brief guidelines.

Feel free to personalize your hair care routine and treat this as one of your self-care activities!

2. TRY A DIFFERENT HAIRSTYLE

The second tip, yup it’s about hair again and this time, ladies, get creative and play with your hair!

Try a different hairstyle to look more feminine without makeup

While it is extremely comfy to not style our hair at all ( We’ve all been there – messy hair with cartoon pajamas at home), the hairstyle is actually a great place to express your femininity and it’s pity that many people overlook that!

It’s actually so much fun to style our hair and there are countless hairstyles on Pinterest:

Youthful Easy Ponytail, a classy flip bun, the classic French braid, hair bow, twisted ponytail…the combinations are countless.

A huge part of expressing femininity is about being creative and staying youthful and curious.

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This is one of the most valuable yet attractive traits of a woman.

Changing your hairstyle from time to time makes you feel more refreshed and it’s so fun to explore your possibilities with hair.

Who knew? Maybe one day you will end up obsessed with wearing a classy low bun with delicate earrings to express your femininity. Never say never!

Despite the hairstyles I’ve mentioned above, here are some hairstyle hacks for the lazy days:

  • Just change your part in your hair rather than change the whole hairstyle
  • Put your long hair to one side and show the other side your shoulder line (This simple act can instantly boost your femininity)
  • Wear pearl hair clips to sparkle up your hair
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Yes, they are the ultimate simple rules but they work wonders.

Always remember, we don’t need a date night to curl our hair for guys, we can do it for ourselves with or without a special occasion.

Looking feminine is about being in love with ourselves and willing to pamper ourselves, this is why a feminine woman always looks so calm and relaxed in every situation.

As the saying goes, Invest in your hair ladies, it is the crown you never take off!

If you are reading till now, high chance you are the hardcore girlies who really want to embrace the natural feminine vibes!

If you find this post helpful, please kindly pin some of the photos so more classy girls like you can come across this post – thanks love x!

3. HAVE CLEAR SKIN AND FACE

With or without makeup, the bottom line is always to have clear skin.

Take care your skin to look feminine without makeup

Skincare is more than outer beauty, it’s the image you present to the world and this reflects how you want to be addressed by others.

There’s no doubt that with clear skin, you are likely to be more confident and comfortable with your acts and leave others a good impression.

There’s no doubt that part of femininity is about nurturing our outer beauty, while it’s not easy at all, it’s always worth it.

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Tips to have clear skin and face:

  • Wear sunscreen (This is a MUST if you don’t want wrinkles in your early 30s)
  • Wash your face with warm water instead of hot water
  • Always hydrate your skin with natural skincare products
  • Exfoliate your face from time to time
  • Use DIY face masks every week
  • Always trim your eyebrows
  • Don’t always touch your face (You have no idea how dirty your hands can be)
  • Sleep on a silk pillow to reduce the fraction of your hair and face

Of course, there are countless beauty tips and hacks to explore!

These 8 tips are nothing fancy but they work wonderfully for my skin, hope you girls will find them useful!


Update: These days I’ve been using this retinol-firming cream and my skin is ridiculously smooth!

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That being said, I have dry skin and I’m not sure can work on any skin type – but just a heads-up! <3

4. WEAR FRAGRANCE FOR WOMANLY VIBES

If you want to look feminine without makeup instantly, wear some perfume!

Perfume is something that is invisible and yet an unforgettable accessory for a woman.

Wear fragrance to look feminine without makeup

With no makeup, your fragrance can help draw people’s attention to you and they will subconsciously link you with the fragrance, which can boost your femininity in others’ eyes.

Despite that, wearing perfume can also show that you are a lady who always makes time to beautify yourself and take care of yourself.

This seems trivial but this trait is really captivating in others’ eyes.

Again, no, you don’t need any dates or celebrations to wear fragrances.

Always remember, do it for ourselves but not others. If you feel like you want to wear a fragrance and that makes you happier, why not?

But as a friendly reminder, pick your perfume carefully, you don’t want to wear fragrance with an overwhelming scent.

My all-time favorite is Miss Dior Blooming Spray, all I can say is it’s a simple elegance essence! Highly recommend.

If you want to look poised and put together instantly, wearing some fragrance will be the easiest way!

5. ACCESSORISE YOURSELF TO LOOK PUT TOGETHER

Despite the fragrance, accessories can always level up and accomplish your whole style.

Wear simple accessories to look feminine without makeup

Statement accessories help to portray your identity or personality to others on a deeper level.

Let’s imagine, a lady with a pair of pearl earrings you probably think of the assumptions of elegance, and sophistication while a lady with black skull earrings may have the assumptions of an artistic and strong personality.

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So yes, accessories speak a lot and this is the golden opportunity to pick the right accessories to express your femininity.

I’ve always thought of accessories as the exclamation point of a woman’s outfit.Michael Kors

When it comes to accessories, here’s the rule: Less is always more for an elegant look! Below is what I mean:

6. WEAR SOFT LIGHT PASTEL COLORS

Black, white, grey, dark blue… these are for sure the classy color that makes us look elegant.

Wear soft light pastel colors to look feminine without makeup

However, if you want to feel and look more feminine and ladylike, wearing some soft light pastel colors can never go wrong!

I know some girls may think wearing purple, pink, or baby blue is too overwhelming and considered “too girly”.

No worries! You don’t have to wear a pink ruffle dress.

Instead, you can try wearing a pastel pink sweater as a starting point.

Once you’ve tried these colors, you will realize how refreshing your look and you will start trying more soft colors outfits!

Life is too boring to just wear black, white and grey! Try some light colors on and embrace your femininity!

7. PICK THE CLOTHES THAT FLATTER YOUR BODY FIGURE

Being feminine in clothes is never about wearing something revealing, but rather, it’s about emphasizing our feminine figure.

Pick the clothes that flatter your body figures to look more feminine

Some of our feminine parts include shoulders, waists, and legs and we can always emphasize these body parts without wearing something revealing.

For example, you can always add a belt to emphasize your waist and this is really truly feminine – simple yet classy!

Of course, there’s nothing wrong with wearing in a more revealing way but just that with revealing outfits, it will be way harder to look classy and elegant in most cases.

One of the simple rules is, to pick only one body part to emphasize.

For example, if you want to show your legs, then you may want to wear a less revealing top to balance it out.

Trust me, this rule can be really useful in many cases. After all, less is always more.

8. LEVEL UP YOUR FEMINITY WITH DIFFERENT TEXTURES OF CLOTHES

I hope this is a new tip for you because I truly find this useful!

Try different textures of clothes to look more feminine without makeup

For a very long time, most of my clothes were made of cotton and I am not really aware of the textures of clothing.

In recent years, I started to dive into femininity and I realized that the texture of a dress can really increase femininity!

Despite the causal fabrics like cotton and denim, we can try velvet, silk, and satin!

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You just can’t go wrong with a satin dress!

Surprisingly, these fabrics are affordable and many clothes are now made from these fabrics too.

All you need to do is start aware of the fabrics and try to include some new fabrics in your wardrobe.

You will be surprised how affordable yet feminine a satin dress is!

9. WEAR COMFY UNDERGARMENTS THAT MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD

You may wonder, well, no one will see my undergarments. Why wearing them will make me more feminine?

Wear comfy undergarments to look feminine without makeup

It’s true that part of femininity is about nurturing the outer beauty, however, femininity always has to start from within to make your vibes complete.

If you don’t feel feminine, even if you are wearing full makeup with red lips, your vibes will just be awkward and people can tell you are trying hard.

With the right fabric and fitted bras, you are feeling comfortable in your own skin and it serves as a good foundation to radiate your femininity.

Whenever I wear lace undergarments, I feel more feminine and I always behave in a more gentle and soft way!

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Affordable yet high-quality seamless underwear like this is a lifesaver

I know this sounds silly but trust me, wearing the right undergarments that boost your mood is really the secret of femininity.

Feeling elegant and ladylike isn’t something we are born with but rather, we learn and nurture it.

Wearing nice underwear is definitely one of the easiest ways to do so!

10. BE AWARE OF YOUR MOVEMENT AND POSTURE

When it comes to movement, this is the place most of us overlook and yes, this affects how feminine we look.

Be aware of your posture and movement to look feminine without makeup

Imagine when you wear an elegant little black dress with rose gold earrings but you close the door with a big “BANG”.

Such a contrast right? Well, this can really ruin your femininity.

Always remember, looking at femininity is not just about the outer look but how you present in front of others as a whole.

How you walk, how you grab things, and the way your move does affect your image.

For example, hunching your back is a big no-no! Keep your heads up and I guarantee you will feel more confident and put together!

11. BE WELCOMING AND KIND…ALWAYS

Last but not least, you guessed it, be welcoming and kind. Nothing is more attractive and ladylike than a woman who treats people equally with a kind heart.

Be welcoming and kind to look feminine without makeup

The core of feminine energy is not just about paying attention to ourselves but also being a true listener to others and always being the positive vibes around people.

You always prepare food when your friends visit, you bake a cake to say thank you to your neighbor, you help a stranger to guide her way, all these trivial things add up to create the ultimate feminine energy that makes you special.

FINAL THOUGHTS:

So yes, if you ask me how to look feminine without makeup, here are the 11 tips to nurture your femininity! Let’s have a quick recap first.

  • Take care of your hair
  • Try a different hairstyle
  • Have clear skin and face
  • Wear fragrance for womanly vibes
  • Accessorize yourself to look put-together
  • Wear soft light pastel colors
  • Pick the clothes that flatter your body curves
  • Level up your feminity with different textures of clothes
  • Wear comfy undergarments that make you feel good
  • Be aware of your movement and posture
  • Be welcoming and kind…always

While some people still think that looking feminine is about wearing a ruffle dress in pink, talking in a high-pitched voice, and wearing red lipstick.

True femininity is versatile and personal for every woman.

Femininity is the ultimate sophistication to be a girl in mind, a woman with attitude, and a lady with class.

So ladies, yes, you CAN look feminine without any makeup!

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🫨❗ 🖤How to look classy with tattoos? DO nothing before these 5 tips! https://www.ladyrefines.com/classy-tattoos-tips/ https://www.ladyrefines.com/classy-tattoos-tips/#respond Tue, 27 May 2025 11:33:15 +0000 https://www.ladyrefines.com/?p=105503 How to look classy with tattoos? Well, while you may need to put in extra effort, it’s definitely achievable to look elegant with tattoos! It’s true that even these days, many people may still think tattoos look trashy and not elegant. But at the end of the day, there are many factors that determine whether …

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How to look classy with tattoos?

Well, while you may need to put in extra effort, it’s definitely achievable to look elegant with tattoos!

It’s true that even these days, many people may still think tattoos look trashy and not elegant.

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@hannahnfashion <3 me in this red tattoo

But at the end of the day, there are many factors that determine whether your tattoos are classy or not.

Let’s not forget some of the classy women like Angelina Jolie and Selena Gomez; they have tattoos as well but still look stunning and polished!

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Here are the 5 tips to look classy with tattoos, enjoy!

1. Beware of the meaning your tattoos convey

Let’s start with the basics, the meaning of your tattoos.

How to look classy with tattoos

People get tattoos for different reasons.

Some want to look like a cool kid, some want to remember his/her life quote and religion, some want to honor a loved one who has passed away and for me, I want to use tattoos as a little decoration.

The message of your tattoos really matters tremendously.

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A butterfly tattoo can represent personal growth, change, or overcoming challenges <3

After all, just like makeup, hairstyle, and outfit, the tattoo is another kind of explicit way to express your beliefs, values, and personality.

As the saying goes, dress like you want to be addressed.

If you want to look classy, then perhaps you should reconsider that skull or naked girl tattoo.

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Always remember, tattoos are something that follows you the whole lifetime; make sure those tattoos are meaningful enough to empower you instead of making you feel insecure after 5 years!

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I personally think the life quote tattoos, religious tattoos, and family tattoos are really classy and elegant; they stand for strength, love, and so much more!

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The truth is, there’s not enough tattoo content on the internet!

If you find this article useful, please kindly pin some of the tattoo pics so more people with good taste like you can come across this article – thanks love! ❤️

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2. TIMELESS tattoo design is key

Being classy is about being timeless and classic. As Karl Lagerfeld once said, “Trendy is the last stage before tacky.”

When it comes to your tattoos, make sure the design is always a timeless piece instead of a trendy piece.

Not kidding, but I saw people doing some food tattoos (like our beloved avocados and cheese) on their front arms, seriously?

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It may look cute in your 20s, but when you are 50 and you look at the food tattoos, you may want to get rid of them.

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Also, when it comes to classy design, typography does play a huge role as well.

Instead of choosing some trendy Instagram fonts, I think the classic script fonts will be a classic design that makes things look more polished.

Last but not least, always go for simple, low-key designs.

You don’t want to make the tattoos so big and too colorful that people shift their attention to the tattoos instead of you during the first meeting.

Having a tattoo can also be private and low-key instead of trying too hard.

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Source: Pinterest

An overwhelming tattoo, it makes people think you validate your value by showing the tattoos even if that’s not your intention.

So ladies and gentlemen, stay lowkey with your classy tattoos without trying too hard and that makes people notice even more!

3. Pay attention to the placement of tattoos

Alright, you chose a nice design tattoo with meaning, and now it’s time to pick the placements!

Of course, there’s no right or wrong when it comes to the placement of the tattoos.

It really depends from person to person, including your occupation.

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While tattoos at work are not a big issue, some tattoo stereotypes still exist.

It’s always a good choice to place your tattoo in some less obvious spot to make things easier, like the inner arms, rib cage, waist, and shoulder back, so you can always hide your tattoo when you want to.

Trust me, you will love this flexibility.

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I don’t think the face is a good placement even for simple elegant tattoos, this is a little bit too obvious and people will stare at your tattoos instead of looking at you in the eyes.

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You just don’t need this distraction in the long term.

4. Wear an elegant outfit that flatters your tattoos

If you have a simple small tattoo on the upper arms, you don’t really have any restrictions when it comes to your outfits.

How to look classy with tattoos

However, if you have large tattoos with colors, you may want to pay extra attention to the outfit including the colors.

For example, if your tattoo is green, wearing a pink dress may not be the best idea.

Here are some of the color combinations that don’t go well with each other:

  • Red and green
  • Green and pink
  • Green and orange
  • Purple and yellow
  • Red and orange

Being classy is about being intentional about the details. Always go for low saturation (Choose emerald green instead of bright green) and classic color, this can give you a softer look that can balance out the strong vibes of the tattoos.

Also, picking an outfit that flatters your tattoos doesn’t mean you have to wear revealing!

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Some people want to show off their tattoos on the chest, so they always dress in a low V cut, while this is totally understandable, it’s not classy if you dress too revealing.

Here’s one simple old rule: If you want to show your chest, don’t show your leg, and vice versa!

After all, looking classy is about taking a balance in everything; this makes you look more put together!

This is so random… BUT

  1. Your body is a masterpiece that carries you through life’s journey—honor it with the love and respect it deserves.
  2. Beauty has no single definition; you define what beauty means through your uniqueness and authenticity.
  3. Your worth extends infinitely beyond your appearance—your kindness, strength, and spirit are what truly shine.
  4. The space you occupy in this world is yours by right; never apologize for existing exactly as you are.
  5. Your body tells the story of your life—every mark, curve, and change is a chapter of resilience and growth.
  6. You deserve to speak to yourself with the same compassion and tenderness you would offer to someone you love.
  7. Nourishing your body and soul isn’t selfish—it’s a necessary act of self-respect and care.
  8. The parts of yourself you’ve been taught to hide may be exactly what makes you magnificently unique.
  9. Your body is not a project to be fixed—it is a vessel for experiencing the fullness of life’s joys.
  10. You are allowed to love yourself completely today, not when you reach some future version of yourself.

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5. Take good care of your tattoo

Let’s not forget the basics: take good care of your tattoos, and make sure they are in good condition over time!

We all know that there are some life quotes tattoos that look truly stunning and elegant, but 5 years later, all the words are blurred, and all you are left is a mysterious dark spot on your shoulder and back that looks like dirt.

Well, that’s not classy at all!

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If you are dedicated to having a tattoo, always do thorough research and look for a tattoo artist who delivers high-quality work.

Avoid friction and sunlight so as to keep your tattoo in nice condition.

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Well, it’s not easy, but you will be proud when your tattoo looks decent after a decade!

In case still don’t have any SPF and tattoo care cream to keep it in good shape, below are my 4 handpicks!

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FINAL THOUGHTS:

When it comes to tattoos, it’s a double-edged sword.

With the wrong choice and wrong placements, it can look trashy in some people’s eyes while if you pick a tattoo with true meaning, it can make you even classier!

But still, at the end of the day, being classy is a combination of personalities, mindset, and appearance traits.

If you have an elegant tattoo but treat people badly, well, you can’t really blame the tattoo!

So let’s have a quick sum-up, here are the 5 tips to look classy and elegant with tattoos!

  • Beware of the meaning your tattoos convey
  • Always look for a timeless design for your tattoos
  • Pay attention to the placements of tattoos
  • Wear an outfit that flatters your tattoos
  • Take good care of your tattoo

So my last genuine advice is to go with your heart! May your tattoo empower you and make you shine!

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*Yes they still exist!* 20 signs he is a chivalry gentleman https://www.ladyrefines.com/signs-he-is-chivalry-gentleman/ https://www.ladyrefines.com/signs-he-is-chivalry-gentleman/#comments Sun, 05 Jan 2025 12:16:00 +0000 https://www.ladyrefines.com/?p=23897 In the well-known spy action movie KINGSMAN, Harry Hart once said “Manners maketh man.” I don’t know about you but these days, the real gentleman seems a rare breed. After all, cultivating a gentleman does involve a lot of time and effort. In the past, there was a famous saying in Britain – “It takes …

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In the well-known spy action movie KINGSMAN, Harry Hart once said “Manners maketh man.”

I don’t know about you but these days, the real gentleman seems a rare breed.

After all, cultivating a gentleman does involve a lot of time and effort.

In the past, there was a famous saying in Britain – “It takes three generations to make a gentleman.

While these classy men are not easy to find, they do really exist. (YAY!)

That said, I’ve gathered 20 signs he is a chivalry gentleman.

It’s totally fine if you disagree with some of these as we all hold different standards.

Take it with a pinch of salt and enjoy!

HE IS A CHIVALRY GENTLEMAN

1. He takes care of his look

He is always hygienic. He will keep his nails clean, trim his hair regularly for a fresh look, and dress according to the occasion.

Truly, maintaining appearance symbolizes manners and discipline.

While he may not wear the classic suit and oxford shoes 24/7, he is always looking put together and smart.

2. He always walks on the curbside

This sweet gesture will truly make a lady feel well-protected.

Someone may argue this is old school and I believe many ladies will appreciate that.

3. He is always punctual

A true gentleman knows this is a sign of respect for others.

In most cases, he may arrive 5 to 10 minutes earlier just in case.

4. He respect everyone

He knows that everyone has dignity and there’s no reason to look down on anyone.

Whether that’s his mother, a waiter in a restaurant, or a beggar on street, he shows kindness and respect.

5. He will always open the door to strangers

Especially for ladies. Yes, Ladies First is still a thing.

It takes 2 seconds to hold the door but guess what, this really makes a difference.

6. He will ask your permission before doing you a favor

Instead of helping you without asking, he will ask to take a step further and ask “Can I do this favor for you?”

Aw… I just feel like a princess.

7. Telephone manners

He is aware of the tone he is presenting and won’t leave the caller on hold for too long.

signs he is a chivalry gentleman

He will never sound distracted even if that’s just a phone call and last, he is also patient enough to let you hang up first.

8. He is articulate in his words

Speak at the right volume and right speed without saying “Um,” “Ah,” and “You Know” all the time.

A well-spoken man just exudes a sense of firmness and confidence.

8. Always say please, thank you, and excuse me

The courteous manner will never be too much.

9. He has a good firm handshake.

More often than not, a good handshake tells more than a title on a business card.

A gentleman always masters the first impression.

10. He will dress accordingly

It seems a no-brainer but trusts me, some guys wear T-shirts on every occasion.

Whether that’s a formal company event or a chill errand day.

Mark Zuckerberg has entered the chat.

11. A gentleman should remove his hat as he enters a building

This includes baseball caps, casual hats, and also sunglasses.

12. He knows he should pay if he invites her out

It’s always a chivalrous act to take care of the check for the first date.

If he is meticulous enough, he will also take an Uber for her.

13. He won’t tell his friends private details about that night with you

You know, the intimate details should be between you and him. He will never make you feel insecure in this way.

14. He gets his suit tailored

SIGNS HE IS A CHIVALRY GENTLEMAN

As Vincent Piazza said, “A custom-tailored suit retains a certain dignity about it”. It just set you apart from others.

That may not need to be a terribly expensive designer piece, but that has to be a high-quality tailored one that lasts you 10 years and more.

15. He makes you feel beautiful

A real man knows how to treat his lady right. He never talks down to her and instead, he makes sure his lady knows she is beautiful and perfect in his eyes.

Not only on birthday but every single day.

And when you smile, this is his source of happiness.

16. He takes pride in protecting others

A sense of chivalry is in his blood and he is proud of it.

17. He will accept and confess his mistakes

Accepting mistakes can be hard.

But a real man is big enough to admit his mistake and learn from it. He considers finding an excuse for the weak.

18. He has proper dining etiquette

You know…all the details like elbows off, knowing which utensils to use, eating slowly.

All these counts.

19. He put his phone into the pocket

He keeps his phone in his pocket when he is dining with you.

And if he is waiting for a work call or email, he will at least place his phone face down on the table to show his respect.

20. A true gentleman loves only one lady. PERIOD.

HE IS A CHIVALRY GENTLEMAN

A gentleman will fight for one woman even if 99 others are chasing him.

FINAL THOUGHTS:

So here are the 20 signs he is a chivalrous gentleman. What do you think?!

I get it, you must now hopelessly think that this kind of classy man is too dreamy to exist in this world.

But guess what, if you have leveled up yourself as a classy lady, you will meet them at the end of the day. This is how the universe works!

By the way, if you are interested in more styling tips, I’m sure you will find the articles below useful!

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6 personal steps for super emotional girls to get over ghosting*Try #Tip 5 sis* https://www.ladyrefines.com/get-over-ghosting/ https://www.ladyrefines.com/get-over-ghosting/#respond Sun, 05 Jan 2025 08:19:14 +0000 https://www.ladyrefines.com/?p=52051 He ghosted me, what should I do? First thing first, sis, I feel you. Being ghosted is literally the worst feeling on earth. According to Darcy Sterling, a New York City-based therapist, she said: “It’s normal to assume you’ve done something wrong when a love interest disappears without explanation.” That’s why being ghosted hurts so …

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He ghosted me, what should I do?

First thing first, sis, I feel you.

Being ghosted is literally the worst feeling on earth.

According to Darcy Sterling, a New York City-based therapist, she said: “It’s normal to assume you’ve done something wrong when a love interest disappears without explanation.”

That’s why being ghosted hurts so much – it’s a mixed emotion from anger, confusion, sadness, loneliness, and helplessness.

what to do after being ghosted

We logically know we aren’t disposable rubbish but somehow it just feels like it.

So yes, being ghosted really sucks.

That said, you are definitely not alone and now I’m trying to offer raw steps to cope with ghosting.

I tried it out myself and it works so hopefully it’s helpful!!

Please take these advise with a pinch of salt, I am not a professional counselor

It’s actually quite vulnerable for me to share all these steps as that’s my personal experience. I am not sure if these tips help because everyone has their own set of logic – so please take it as a reference 💖

1. Understand the neuropsychology of ghosting

First thing first, understand the human nature that we subconsciously want an explanation about something we don’t understand.

When someone ghosts us, that triggers our whole brain activity.

It activates a systemic experience of loss that stems from our amygdala, hippocampus, and prefrontal cortex.

When you know it’s scientifically normal to have that kind of sadness and desperation ( The thought of I can do everything if he/she comes back to my life), at least you will have a certain level of compassion for yourself and understand it’s okay to have all sort of emotions.

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These days, the attachment theory is all the rage these days.

I think it’s so important to NOT identify your sadness of being ghosted because you have an anxious attachment and you should FIX yourself.

Don’t be that harsh to yourself and I’m sure regardless of your attachment style, everyone will feel sad and betrayed about being ghosted!

Remember, you already suffer a lot – don’t add an extra layer of guilt to this whole situation.

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STOP thinking you are overreacting, being ghosted is like undergoing through drug withdrawal, of course you want to find him back and seek validation from him.

Nothing’s wrong with you.

You are already trying your very best to resist the temptation and reading this post now.

I am PROUD OF YOU.


2. Keep watching YouTube videos

If you are an emotional girl, I’m pretty sure just doing Step 1 is not enough.

To release your full-blown emotions, keep watching YouTube videos with the titles

and more.

how to deal with ghosting

The high chance is after watching 20 videos in a row, you will still feel those boiling emotions but at least you feel someone (The Youtuber) understands you.

That’s a certain level of comfort.

And by watching these YouTube videos, you slowly release a certain part of anger and sadness.

In this moment, you have to find an exit from your emotions, and watching videos certainly helps.

how to cope with ghosting

Some other ways are going to forums like Reddit, and Quora and reading other people’s stories – that will make you feel better as well.


3. Understand that you won’t have this feeling FOREVER

In this moment, I get it, the temptation is SO REAL.

You want to text him a long text so bad, keep calling him until he picks up, looking for the explanation.

I’d say STOP. (Slap you in the face)

There are two logical reasons:

1) If you want him to come back ( Trust me you will feel silly when you get over this guy after 2 weeks LOL), finding him is NOT GONNA help the situation.

If you just accept being ghosted, leave him alone, and live your life as if nothing happened, there’s a chance that after a period of time he will find you back. (You can check out the science behind this phenomenon on YT)

Actually, I will suggest you ghost him when he comes back later LOL

how to cope with ghosting

You definitely deserve better sis.

2) Rmb that NO RESPONSE (ghosting) is already a response.

Ghosting = he is not interested in you.

He might have a certain level of interest in you but NOT HIGH enough to keep in contact with you.

4. STOP FINDING EXCUSES

Ladies, we all know how imaginative we can be.

Oh, is that because he lost his phone and can’t contact me?

Oh, is that because he is playing a hot and cold mind game with me and actually secretly waiting for me to find him?

Well, MEN isn’t as complicated as us – they are mission-oriented and they do what they want.

To stop all the excuses in your mind, you just have to keep telling yourself,

If he wanted to, He would

Seriously, keep telling yourself this line, your brain desperately needs it.

5. Create Fake Hope to buy time

I don’t think everyone needs this step but if you are a hyper-sensitive or super-emotional girl, being ghosted by your crush or getting over a situation can REALLY feel like a catastrophe.

After going through previous step 4, you might still feel like SxIT and it’s okay.

Let’s do Step 5 – BEING DELUSIONAL to buy time.

how to handle being ghosted

I’d suggest you shut down your phone or delete the whole WhatsApp (or any kind of texting tool you and ghoster were using) and wait for perhaps 2 or 3 days (or even a week) to open that back.

That way, you can have a fake hope that he might already find you back and you can have 3 or 4 days of peace before facing reality again.

The point of using this strategy is BUY TIME for yourself to still function well.

Trust me, after 3-4 days, part of your logical side will take back and your emotions will feel less overwhelmed.

When you download back the Whatsapp, your emotional state is already different, and even if he doesn’t find you, it’s not as hurtful as you would have imagined.

6. DISTRACT YOURSELF

Actually, keeping distracting yourself is the fundamental step to getting over this whole messy ghosting thing.

Staying busy might not be a long-term solution but definitely an effective short-term coping mechanism.

Just being occupied with tasks helps take your mind off of what’s bothering you.

how to handle being ghosted

For me, the worst thing ever is staying in your room with the curtain closed and feeling super isolated.

Sometimes when you are deeply in your head, that hopelessness can drag you into a dark hole that no one can understand.


Depending on your emotional state, these are some things you can do:

  • keep showing up in the office and working on your job
  • Download a dating app and start scrolling (even if you don’t feel like it – as what you want is a distraction)
  • Keep asking your friends out every night to keep yourself occupied and tired
  • Find a short-term goal to accomplish (That one really works as it gives you a sense of accomplishment)
how to handle being ghosted

Think about doing 16/8 fasting, starting a new hobby like Zumba, going to the gym, and more.

If you are in the depressed stage and feel like you don’t have any energy to do your normal things (like going to work or meeting friends), at least force yourself to

  • Get out of the house and sit under sunlight (That helps immensely)
  • Get a facial or nail appointment (So you can stay silent if that makes you feel comfortable)
  • Do some shopping (Shopping therapy is real sis, if you worry you will spend too much, go thrifting so you won’t feel too guilty afterward)

7. Embrace the whole journey

Last but not least, embrace the whole ghosting journey.

Keep doing step 1 to step 6 until you feel better…

As a super emotional ISFP, I totally understand how hurtful you are right now.

But trust me, the feeling comes and goes and eventually one day you will get over this whole ghosting thing.

how to handle being ghosted

One day, you will see this whole thing from a new perspective and that’s the moment you realize you already move on.

And that’s the moment you realize you are stronger than you think you are 🙂

The truth is, there are many girls out there being ghosted like you …🥹

If you find these tips useful, please help me pin or share this post so more ladies can feel better x

Thanks love – the girl power is real 🥹💖

FINAL THOUGHTS:

So there you go – the 6 steps if you are wondering how to get over ghosting.

What are your thoughts on that?

I hope after reading this post makes you feel better. Trust me, I am a hyper sensitive ISFP, if I can deal with it, you can do.

Send you virtual hug here.

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Have you ever wondered – why am I not in a relationship? How to find love again?

I feel you.

The truth is – there are a wide range of reasons for this question.

More often than not, it’s not always about looks but something more in-depth.

If you are ready to dig out the truth, check out the 8 reasons!

1. You don’t love yourself

As Dalai Lama said “If you don’t love yourself, you cannot love others. If you have no compassion for yourself then you cannot develop compassion for others.”

That’s so true.

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The truth is – your partner is your mirror.

If you are triggered by some of the behavior of your partner, there is a high chance that this is the exact behavior you don’t accept yourself.

For example, some of the behavior by your partner reflects your childhood trauma that hasn’t healed yet or other things that trust issues.

If you don’t heal and love yourself well, it’s impossible to have the capacity to love others.

Plus, even though your dates may not be able to pinpoint that, people can sense that you have low self-esteem and don’t find you attractive in that regard.

2. You don’t understand what you really want

If you want to have a wholesome relationship, understanding yourself is the first key.

And it’s actually not as easy as we thought.

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Step 1:

Don’t fall into the trap and blindly follow what society says a fulfilling relationship should be. Everyone has different needs and you should define that yourself.

While some of the needs and desires for a relationship are pretty much universal, only YOU know what factors are your priorities and what factors are just good to have.

For example, Mary is an independent girl and she needs a certain amount of alone time. She is also work-oriented and intimate relationship comes second.

If she understands herself well and accepts that, she will know a partner who wants to see her every single day and expects her to reply to the text within 30 minutes may not be for her.

While for Jamie, she craves emotional connection so much and a relatively clingy partner is actually perfect for her.

So yes, it’s so important to understand yourself enough to the point that you know what you are looking for in a partner.

By that point, you are ready to enter a relationship.

SIDE NOTE:

To me, figuring out my MBTI type is such a life-changing thing for me.

After knowing I am an ISFP (Feeling type) myself, I finally realized I need a partner who is emotionally savvy.

While for some thinking types, emotional savvy is not a main criterion.

Trust me, if you don’t figure out what you really want, it’s hard to get into a relationship.

3. You are not over the last relationship

If you haven’t let go of your ex, it’s hard for you to open your heart and enter a new relationship.

Even if you’ve found the right one, you may subconsciously sabotage the relationship by comparing your new date with your ex in a biased way.

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So ladies, face the pain and go through the healings first.

I know it can be hard, but I know you can do it!

Solution:

This video is gold.

Hope you find this helpful!

4. Limiting mindset for finding love

As Leon Brown said “You are your worst enemy. It is your negative thoughts that hold you back, nothing else.”

Some of the limiting mindset sounds like this:

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“I am already 35 years old, I have to find someone to settle asap”

“It is hard to find “The One” as it is too good to be true”

“I only attract bad boys.”

All these limiting beliefs are like curses in the brain – it’s impossible to get into a satisfying relationship if you have this altered view of finding love.

Solution:

Step 1: Identify your limiting belief

Sometimes writing that down makes you realize how ridiculous those beliefs are. (Been there, done that – it works)

Step 2: Detach from that belief

Understand that those beliefs and thoughts don’t represent YOU.

Create some space between you and your thoughts.

Step 3: Replace the old belief with new positive thoughts

The mind is EVERYTHING.

What you think, you become.

5. You are looking for the “perfect” person

If you want someone who is fun and adventurous, high chance he or she is not a meticulous planner and more goes with the flow.

If you want someone calm and put together during difficult times, high chance he or she may not be emotionally expressive like a teddy bear.

The truth is, you can’t have it all.

The sooner you realize this, the quicker you set yourself free and have a reasonable view towards finding the one.

Pick the negotiables and non-negotiables, and be compassionate to yourself and others.

Sometimes a good relationship is simply two perfectly imperfect people not willing to give up on each other and keep showing up.

6. You are not putting yourself out there

Finding love takes A TON OF effort – it’s no easy feat.

So, ladies, it’s time to put yourself out there and do the work:

  • Asking your friends for “referrals”
  • Go to the dating app
  • Join the interest class
  • Make friends with strangers
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As an introvert, I truly know how hard it is.

But trust me, when you meet your Mr. Right or Mrs. Right one day, it’s all worth it.

7. You care about instant attraction too much

If you think the instant chemistry is a must, well, think again.

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For some of the relationships, chemistry doesn’t appear on the first date or even the first few dates.

Depending on the personality, it takes time for your date to be natural and open up with you and the attraction can be slowly developed shortly after.

So ladies, if there are no red flags on the first date – perhaps say yes to second date and see where it goes!

Never say never.

8. You don’t have much going on in life

If you have nothing to do except the 9-5 job – well, it’s time to get some new hobbies and other activities.

After all, you don’t attract what you want, you attract what you ARE.

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If you want to attract a partner who is also passionate about life, let’s fill up your calendar first!

Plus, if you have an empty life and focus on finding love too much, you are sending desperate vibrations and people can all subconsciously feel that.

FINAL THOUGHTS:

So there you go – the 8 reasons if you are wondering why am I not in a relationship and how to find love again.

What are your thoughts on that?

I hope this article helps! If you find it useful, please help to pin or share this article so more single friends find this helpful!

Of course, there are more than 8 reasons – if you have anything want to share, comment down below!

For more articles, check out the popular read down below! See you there loves!

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Ladies, let’s talk about how to look more feminine in the face!❤️👇🏼

Yup, not just looking pretty but looking womanly with facial features!

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This topic is quite intriguing to me and I’ve done some research regarding this topic.

It’s surprising to know countless factors determine how feminine our face is going to look.

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Despite the bone structures that we can’t change, we can always look more womanly with our faces with some makeup tips and tricks!

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If you are ready, here are 9 tips on how to look more feminine in the face.

Stay tuned for the last tip (or tool!) – especially for the single ladies out there.

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Hopefully, you will enjoy this article <3!

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Enjoy loves!❤️

1. OPT FOR THINNER ARCHED EYEBROWS❤️👇🏼

Feminine eyebrows 101: Knowing the eyebrow shape difference between men and women.

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Guys have thicker and straight eyebrows with a brow ridge that creates deeper shadows

From HuffPost, the article has stated that eyebrows have been getting ‘More Masculine’ for The Past 60 years.

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Women tend to have thinner and arched eyebrows

So while getting a thick eyebrow can be trendy, more importantly, is important to be clear about the final look you want to achieve.❤️

If the goal is to look feminine, a pair of delicate, soft-angled eyebrows can boost the feminine vibes tenfold.

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So, here are some of the simple ways to achieve a pair of feminine eyebrows.

  • Trim your eyebrows regularly
  • Use a white eyeliner pencil or any highlighter to highlight the arches of your eyebrows
  • Create a softer eyebrows look by using eyebrow powder instead of eyebrow pencils so as to avoid sharp lines
  • Dark brown is always better than black (just my personal opinion)
  • Dye your eyebrows for a more gentle look

These are the rules in general, but always work according to your own face!

If you have a prominent nose or black hair, dark eyebrows will suit you more, as this can give the whole face a more united look.

Another example from the gorgeous model Natalia Castellar shows you how the thickness and shape of the eyebrow can affect the vibes.

With natural eyebrows❤️👇🏼:

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With thick dark eyebrows❤️👇🏼:

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Source: W Magazine

I actually think Natalia handled this eyebrow well because she has a relatively feminine jawline and eyes.

So things just balance off.❤️

However, if you already have masculine facial features, embracing the extra-thick eyebrow may not be a good idea.

So ladies, feel free to figure out what type of eyebrows suit you the best and find the sweet spot!

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2. EXAGGERATING THE EYE FEATURES❤️👇🏼

If I can only do makeup on just one feature, doubtlessly I will do my eyes!

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When it comes to eye makeup products, have you realized that they all try to exaggerate your eyes’ features like cartoon eyes?

The eyeliner, the eyelash curler, and the glittering eyeshadows all help you to draw people’s attention to your eyes.

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So yes, eye makeup is really effective in making your face look feminine instantly!

Here are some basic ways to do it❤️👇🏼:

  • Curl your eyelashes and apply an appropriate amount of mascara (Please don’t overdo it)
  • Apply a small amount of mascara on the lower eyelashes to achieve a more innocent look (optional)
  • Opt for dark brown mascara instead (Again, details MATTER)
  • Apply natural eyeshadow to make your eyes look more pop-up
  • I DON’T recommend drawing the inner eyeliners as this makes the eyes appear smaller – See below
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If you want to look more feminine, winged eyeliner is always the best choice!❤️

It creates almost an almond eye shape, which is the opposite of most men’s eyes.

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In fact, the power of eye makeup is not just about highlighting your eyes.

If you have a more masculine jawline, it can help to shift people’s attention from the facial line to the eyes.

With bigger eyes, it makes your face look smaller in proportion as well.

For the best eyeliner color, you guessed it, dark brown or another kind of brown.

If you want to know more, this infographic from BUZZFEED is amazing!❤️👇🏼

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Source: Buzzfeed

Using white eyeliner for the undereye always makes your eyes appear slightly bigger with an aesthetic and refreshing look.❤️

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Source: Maybelline

I don’t think many girls are doing this right now – and that means this is the chance for you to stand out from the crowd and SHINE!

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To boost the effect of the darling “doll eyes”, add a tad of glitter to help open up the eyes even more!


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3. SOFTEN YOUR JAWLINE AND FACE LINING❤️👇🏼

While men have a longer, square chin, women usually have a round jawline.

While we can’t change our jawline (unless you want to go through surgery), we can always use easy contouring to soften our face lines and get a more feminine jawline!

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In the picture above, you can see we always apply bronze to the hairline and jawline so as the minimize the squareness of cheeks and face overall.

In the meantime, we also want to shift people’s attention from the jawline to areas like the forehead and chin!

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If you want to level up your contouring game, you can always use an eyebrow pencil to fill and smoothen the hairline.❤️

I know this tip sounds weird, but as a girl with thin hair, this hack works wonders for me, and I feel like my face line looks smoother.

For the ladies who want a quick fix for visible areas of the scalp, this BOLDIFY hairline powder from Amazon is the hidden gem.

Try it out!

Of course, Tom Ford’s Shade and Illuminate Cream Palette is unbeatable.

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The problem is some colors always sold out quickly.

Good luck!❤️

Another reminder if you have a masculine jawline:

Avoid wearing a high-neck top.

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It just draws people’s eyes to your face and exaggerates the jawline even more.

Alternatively, a feminine scoop neck or off-shoulder top can work wonders.

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4. PLUMPER ROUNDER LIP TO LOOK FEMININE❤️👇🏼

Well, you don’t need a lip injection to achieve a plumper lip.

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No matter how big or small your lip is, it has its beauty already.

Still, if you want to enhance femininity, here are some stupid easy tricks.❤️👇🏼

  • Draw the lip liner for a more divine and plumper lip shape
  • Apply naturally red/ pink lipstick
  • Add a little bit of highlight on the center of the lips
  • Coat your lips with a thin layer of lip gloss

I know there are countless DIY ways to make your lips look plumper on YouTube.

Some tips actually can hurt if you aren’t doing them in the right way so I rather not recommend them here.

To me, I do think drawing a slightly bigger lip shape is more than enough to highlight the feature!

And when it comes to this point, the video below is THE BEST among all the tutorials I’ve watched.

This YouTuber first showed a wrong example of outlining the lips and then a perfect way.

Watch now and see if you do it the right way!

5. When in doubt, red lips❤️👇🏼

Need I say more? Red lips are just universally feminine and attractive.

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According to Psychological Today, highly attractive women were perceived as even more attractive in red.

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So I guess there’s never too much red for the lips!

Plus, this is always an indicator of the confidence level. Bold ladies rock the red, which makes them even more appealing.

6. PICK A FEMININE HAIRSTYLE THAT WORKS FOR YOUR FACE❤️👇🏼

Ladies, your hairstyle MATTERS.

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Source: Daily Mail

If you have feminine facial features but somehow don’t look feminine, probably your hairstyle is too masculine and this balances out the femininity in your face.❤️

While technically you can look feminine in both short and long hair, if you have a more square jawline, long hair can really hide the lining a lot!

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Here are some hairstyle suggestions for different face shapes❤️👇🏼:

  • Oval Shape: Basically everything!
  • Square Shape: Long waves hair and avoid jaw-length bob
  • Round Shape: Long hair with side parts and avoid bangs
  • Long Shape: Long voluminous curls with bangs and avoid sleek ponytail
  • Heart Shape: Curly/straight long hair and avoid Pixie cuts

With the right hairstyle, it can smoothen your faceline and make your face look more womanly!

As a round-face girl, I feel like I am a totally different person when I don’t do the bangs anymore – I hate to admit but I look SO MUCH BETTER.

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What do you guys think?

By the way, if you are interested in how to look classy with short hair, you will love this article!

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7. ALWAYS SHOW YOUR NECKLINE (ALWAYS)❤️👇🏼

Instead of hiding both sides of the jaw with long hair, magically, it looks better when you show one side of your neckline!

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By tucking one side of the hair behind the ears, your face looks naturally smaller visually as the neckline draws people’s attention.❤️

This also explains why we always look slimmer when we wear an off-shoulder dress than a round-neck top.

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On top of that, the neckline is one of the most feminine spots among our body curves so it’s also flattering to show our neckline.❤️

It’s a bit sexy but in a classy way, LOVE it.

Another way to contour face shape: wear longline earrings.

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Not only it’s ultra feminine, but the earring just makes your face appear to be smaller by comparison.

8. MAINTAIN SMOOTH MOISTURIZING SKIN❤️👇🏼

Last but not least, let’s not forget our canvas – the skin!

Men tend to have rougher and drier skin with less trimming, that’s why smooth moisturizing skin is always feminine to look at.

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Face skincare is a broad topic, without diving too deep, here are some basic tricks!

  • Wear sunscreen every day (Even if it’s a rainy or a cloudy day) to prevent wrinkles and more skin problems – a total game changer
  • Clean and moisturize your skin daily
  • Do deep cleaning once or twice a month
  • Eat less junk food and oily food to prevent acne (You are what you eat)

A good skin condition not only shows our femininity but also reflects how healthy we are.

Trust me, people can really tell if are you putting your life together just by how you take care of your appearance and body!

TOOLS YOU NEED TO ENHANCE YOUR FEMININITY❤️👇🏼:

For eyebrows❤️👇🏼:

  • Benefit High Brow Glow Pencil (Many ladies are already using this brand so I’m not going introduce it, but really, I LOVE the darling champagne-pink shade)
  • Eyebrow / Facial Razor ( I’ve tried a few pricy brands but I just think the $4.99 one already works wonders for me)

For eyes❤️👇🏼:

  • Dark brown mascara is always better than black ( For girls who wanna look good but without trying too hard)
  • White eyeliner for the corner for the lower lid (For girls who wanna look slightly innocent)
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Source: UDN Style

For lips❤️👇🏼:

  • Natural Lips Enhancer ($9) (You’ll be pleasantly surprised with this little tool, but as a disclaimer, I don’t use it every day, I will use it before the first date lmao)

For skins❤️👇🏼:

Sorry, not gonna recommend anything The products that work for me may not work for you.

But if you have super dry skin like me, I’d say give this product a go.

This is so random… BUT

  1. Your body is a masterpiece that carries you through life’s journey—honor it with the love and respect it deserves.
  2. Beauty has no single definition; you define what beauty means through your uniqueness and authenticity.
  3. Your worth extends infinitely beyond your appearance—your kindness, strength, and spirit are what truly shine.
  4. The space you occupy in this world is yours by right; never apologize for existing exactly as you are.
  5. Your body tells the story of your life—every mark, curve, and change is a chapter of resilience and growth.
  6. You deserve to speak to yourself with the same compassion and tenderness you would offer to someone you love.
  7. Nourishing your body and soul isn’t selfish—it’s a necessary act of self-respect and care.
  8. The parts of yourself you’ve been taught to hide may be exactly what makes you magnificently unique.
  9. Your body is not a project to be fixed—it is a vessel for experiencing the fullness of life’s joys.
  10. You are allowed to love yourself completely today, not when you reach some future version of yourself.

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9. Pheromone perfume for feminine vibe❤️👇🏼

Regardless of your facial features, you look attractive in your own way!

A side topic If you care the sexual attraction, this Pheromone perfume from Amazon is such a gem.

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From THE HEALTHY, Pheromones do have effects on ourselves and on other people nearby and trigger the desire.

I bought this Pheromone perfume myself and all I can say is – it works for me and makes me feel better!❤️

Of course, these are not magic pills and from the Amazon reviews – seems females have more success with this unisex pheromone perfume compared to males!

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10. Dress feminine with the right clothes

Alright, so now you know how to look feminine in the face. Well, make sure your outfit keeps up with that as well!

If you are looking for more feminine outfit ideas, check out my LTK account down below – see you there pretty! 💖

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How classy are these dresses?

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If you think this article is useful, I’m pretty sure you will LOVE the tips I offer in the articles below – Check them out loves!❤️👇🏼

See you!


FINAL THOUGHTS❤️👇🏼:

So here are the 9 main ways when it comes to how to look more feminine in the face naturally! Let’s have a quick recap:

  • Opt for thinner arched eyebrows
  • Exaggerating the features of eyes
  • Contour your face to soften the lining of your face
  • Do a plumper, rounder lip
  • Always show your neckline
  • Maintain smooth and moisturizing skin

What do you think about these tips? I hope you find these helpful!

When I was young, I always wondered why women look “prettier” after makeup but now I finally understand, that all these makeup and beauty hacks are helping us to enhance our feminine face structure!

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It’s really intriguing to me and I hope so, do you!

Anyways ladies, whether you have a square face or round face, small eyes, or big eyes, we are all perfect imperfections. Of course, there’s nothing wrong with bettering ourselves.

But we always have to realize that we are all beautiful in our own ways! (Virtual Hug)

If you are interested in topics like elegant and feminine outfit styles, here are some related reads! See you there!

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Let’s be real y’all – dating is no easy feat.

Depending on the dynamic between you and him, the journey can either be the two love birds in fantasyland or a never-ending haunted house visit.

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And this time the relationship question is: If a guy asks you to lunch is he interested?

I love this question as I have a real case study that I could share – enjoy!


First thing first, to answer the question: Lunch date IS NOT equal to the friend zone.

At the end of the day, it truly depends on the context and how it plays out.

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Disclaimer:

I am not a relationship coach in any form.

I am just giving my two cents here from my personal experience, you don’t have to agree with me and please take all these with a grain of salt x Thanks love.


1. If the first date is a lunch/ coffee date, there’s nothing wrong!

If he asked you for a coffee date as the first date, it’s totally okay.

Especially when you guys meet from a dating app, there are just too many uncertainties around the whole thing.

You don’t know the chemistry and you don’t know whether he or she is a catfish or not.

Imagine if he dated you at a fancy resto at night and you found him awkward and looked completely a different person from the profile pic but the French dinner lasted for a good 3 hours.

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That’s a hell.

Plus, I feel really bad if I know I won’t see this guy the second time but seeing him pays for the fine dining $300 bill.

The conclusion?

If it’s your first date, when a guy asks you out for lunch or coffee, it’s actually nice!

He IS interested in you, otherwise, he won’t even try to get out of the talking stage and initiate a lunch with you.

In this case, not asking for a fancy dinner date as a first date doesn’t mean he is stingy or a low-effort person at all.

He is just being reasonable and cautious with all the uncertainties.

So go ahead ladies – don’t overthink, don’t have any expectation, keep it chill and enjoy the first date!

2. The dynamic after the first date

After the first date, things should be very clear.

For men, it only takes several minutes to know if he is interested in you. (I am not talking about whether he is committed to being with you, I am talking about the chemistry and interest level)

If he is interested in you, he naturally wants to invest more resources (time and money) in you and spend time with you and know you more.

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Of course, everyone has their own pace.

For some guys, they might be slow to warm up and ask you for dinner after the third or fourth date.

But in my case, after the first date, the guys will usually ask me for dinner or spend time during the weekend.

3. Not a high interest level (Not friendzone tho)

Okay ladies, story time.

I met a guy back in January this year and now we’ve been out for 6 times in total already.

He is definitely a slow-paced person and not the romantic type.

Despite the fact that we don’t chat often during text, we are always happy together during our dates and I am looking forward to seeing him again.

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For the last date, he drove me to an amusement park, had a Spanish dinner afterward, and drove me back home safely.

And after two weeks, he asked me out again, but here’s what he said

“Free to have lunch during weekdays?”

Well, that’s not a good sign.

Obviously, his interest level has declined and he didn’t want to invest as much time and money as before.

In this situation, this lunch date means he is not interested enough to spend a weekend night with me but still somehow interested in keeping me in his dating pipeline.

In other words, he is unsure about me for some reason.

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I did feel disappointed cause I do like him more than the other guys, but I do respect that as dating is a discovery phrase.

He can pull out the resources if he feels like it and at the same time, we as the women can decide whether you accept this change of dating behavior as well.

You deserve someone who can't wait to talk to you and spend time with you.
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I remember when I asked him in the phone call “Don’t you think weekday lunch is too rush? We can just meet 1.5 hours and you have to go back to work.”

“I think a quick 1.5-hour meeting is fine.” He said.

In this case, I said no to him.

I do like him but at the same time, I think I deserve a date night.

If a weekday lunch date is all he wanna do, I’d say no.

4. A male coworker asked for lunch

And when it comes to the workplace dynamic, that can be slightly different.

If a guy asked you for lunch (just you and him), I’d say the chance is 50/50.

Date someone who is home and an adventure all at once

Chance A: He is just being friendly and feels like chatting with you is fun. (Especially when the lunch conversation is about gossiping his boss/ team – he wants to have lunch with you for emotional support perhaps)

Chance B: If he kindly offers to pay for the lunch and ask questions about you, he might be romantically interested in you.

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After all, office romance is something that has to be handled carefully.

Even if a male colleague likes you, he might not ask you for dinner straight away as that can be too obvious.

If you reject him, it can be a little bit embarrassed as you guys might still meet in the office.

So yes, for the office setting, a lunch date is a good sign!

5. Don’t have too many assumptions

Ladies, we all know how much we can overthink.

I think there’s a concept we have to keep in mind.

Dating IS NOT EQUAL to being in a relationship, rather, it’s the discovery stage.

If we have too much expectation towards someone, we turn out to disappoint ourselves and that’s not fair to the counterparty as well.

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If there’s a shift of energy from your date (i.e. always take you for a dinner date but now asking for a lunch date), you can casually ask them “Oh wow – you seem busy. What you up to for the weekend then?”

You might be surprised that it’s not what thought.

There’s a chance that he was in his peak season during work and he tried his best to squeeze his time to meet you.

But that said, the chance is rare.

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FINAL THOUGHTS:

So there you go my loves – this is my thought when it comes to lunch dates.

Lunch dates don’t mean friendzone – it really depends on the progress and dynamic between you and him.

But at the end of the day, I’m sure you already have your interpretation in mind – let’s not forget woman’s instinct never fails.

I’d say do what makes you feel good.

Regardless of how many people’s opinions you’ve gained, make the decision that makes you feel loved but not wronged. 💖

For more relationship articles, check out these posts down below, see you there loves!

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For me, one of the most relaxing things is binge-reading some amazing quotes when I need some peace and motivation.

This is really soothing when the beautiful quotes can express the profound thought in just a few words, that just really warms my heart.

So ladies, below are the quotes when it comes to the qualities of a good woman! 

Enjoy!

1. She is confident and she knows she is enough

A good woman doesn’t necessarily mean she is “obedient” like a doll at all, instead, a high-level woman is always confident and secure about herself.

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Through all the life lessons, she now finally realizes everyone is perfect imperfection.

She stops comparing with others and stops validating her values through others.

She takes self-care and her goals as a priority and strives for betterment every day.

She understands the fact that confidence is sought from within.

So yes, she is confident all the time and that makes her look more attractive and irresistible.

Confidence is not ” They will like me”, confidence is “I’ll be fine if they don’t”

I can’t think of any better representation of beauty than someone who is unafraid to be herself.

Emma Stone

She believed she could, so she did.

Confidence is the ability to feel beautiful without needing someone to tell you.

Trust your intuition. You don’t need to explain or justify your feelings to anyone, just trust your own inner guidance, it knows best.

A strong woman looks a challenge in the eye and gives it a wink.

Gina Carey

2. She practices self-love and gives it a top priority

She recognizes that self-love is not a luxury but instead, a necessity in nowadays society.

It takes her some time to figure that out but she finally realizes self-love is more than affirmation, journaling, and facial time.

Qualities of a good woman quotes

Self-love also means drinking less alcohol, sleeping earlier, getting rid of a toxic friend, and having her own hobbies.

In fact, practicing self-love is one of her interests too.

She put time and effort into nurturing herself into a better version and that’s an unstoppable journey.

After all, how you love yourself is teaching others how to love you.

The most important relationship is the one you have with yourself.

Love yourself first, so you know what you deserve.

How you love yourself is how you teach others to love you

Self love is the greatest middle finger of all time.

If you’re searching for that one person that will change your life, take a look in the mirror.

Strong women don’t play victim, don’t make themselves look pitiful, & don’t point fingers. They stand and they deal.

Mandy Hale

We all are perfectly imperfect and that’s perfectly alright

3. She never settles for less because she knows what she deserves

She never plays a victim mindset on how she is being treated.

She set her boundaries of how she should be treated.

Qualities of a good woman quotes

Someone may think this is cockiness but she knows this is a value that she should stand for.

She also realized the harsh fact that women without boundaries will soon be women without respect.

So yes ladies, keep your standards high because you are teaching people how they should treat you.

If someone betrays you more than once, no more second chance!

Once a woman knows her worth, she will NEVER settle for less again.

You don’t find your worth in a man. You find your worth within yourself and then find a man who’s worthy of you. Remember that.

Respect yourself enough to say “I deserve better”

Know your worth, then add tax.

Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.

The best revenge is no revenge. Move on. Be happy. Find inner peace. Flourish.

4. She uplifts other women cause girl power is a real thing

She always thought uplifting other women was one of the most powerful and beautiful things.

She is so over all sorts of drama happening between girls and comparing herself to other ladies.

Qualities of a good woman quotes

When she comes across the ladies who don’t fully realize their full potential and value, she knows it’s her time to uplift them.

After all, it’s kind of boring to be powerful alone.

When all of the women realize their worth, the power is unstoppable.

Real queens fix each other’s crowns.

A real woman doesn’t have to throw dirt on another females name to feel more secure about herself.

Amazing things happen when women help other women

Kasia Gospos

A flower does not think of competing with the flower next to it. It just blooms.

Zen Shin

She remembered who she was and the game changed.

Lalah Deliah

5. She can be endurant as giving up simply is not an option

As much as it’s so cliche hard things just don’t come easy.

For the things that she knows it’s worth pursuing, she just never stops.

Qualities of a good woman quotes

She may cry during the journey, but she also feels the most alive when she conquers her goals.

After all, winners are not those who never fail, but those who never quit.

Life is tough my darling, but so are you.

Think like a queen. A queen is not afraid to fail. Failure is another steppingstone to greatness.

Oprah Winfrey

I am working on myself, for myself, by myself.

You are allowed to be both a masterpiece and a work in progress.

Sophia Bush

Be the change that you wish to see in the world.

Mahatma Gandhi

Some women choose to follow men, and some women choose to follow their dreams.

After all, if she never give up, she will never fail.

6. She may not be the trendiest but she is for sure elegant and timeless

She knows the truth that trendy is the last stage before tacky so she never blindly follows all the trends out there.

After all, a classic bag is always more worth investing in than a seasonal version.

Qualities of a good woman quotes

Looking timeless and elegant is more than wearing pearl earrings and a little black dress, it’s the simplicity, the wisdom, and the art of life that makes a woman look sparkling.

Dress shabbily and they remember the dress dress impeccably and they remember the woman.

Coco Chanel

Elegance is not being noticed, it’s about being remembered.

Luxury is a matter of money. Elegance is a question of education.

Sacha Guitry

Elegance must be the right combination of distinction, naturalness, care and simplicity.

Christian Dior

Elegance is the only beauty that never fades.

Audrey Hepburn

Pretty is an accident of nature. Elegance is a self-created work of art.

7. She is effortlessly classy and graceful

She doesn’t have to be rich to look classy and graceful.

Looking classy is more than wearing designer brands, instead, it’s the unspoken manners and behaviors that make you look classy.

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It involves all the trivial things like the way you talk, the way you treat others, how disciplined you are, and every little refinement you want in life.

Looking rich is easy but looking classy, it’s another level.

Girls want attention but women want respect.

Classy is when a woman has everything to flaunt, but chooses not to show it.

If you find yourself constantly trying to prove your worth to someone, you have already forgotten your value.

Women are like tea bags. You don’t know their strength until they’re in hot water.

Class is knowing what to say, when to say it, and when to stop.

Luxury is a matter of money. Elegance is a question of education

Sacha Guitry

Raise your words, not your voice. It is rain that grows flowers, not thunder.

Rumi

8. She is always kind, not just to kids and dogs but to everyone

Last but not least, she always be a little kinder than necessary.

After all, a smile is contagious and free so why not spread it out?

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After all, everyone is struggling with something under their mask, you will never know if your kindness that day may possibly save someone’s life.

In a world where you can be anything, be kind.

Be kind to those who are unkind, they need it most.

Be kind, for everyone you meet in fight a hard battle.

Philo

Till today, please and thank you are still magic words.

I’ve been searching for ways to heal myself, and I’ve found that kindness is the best way.

Lady Gaga

Final Thoughts:

So ladies, here are all my favorite quotes when it comes to the qualities of a good woman.

When I was young, I thought it was so boring to be a good woman.

All I want is to look pretty and special.

But now, I finally realize that the qualities of a good woman are also the recipes to be attractive and captivating in a timeless way.

After all, a pretty face can fade, and a nice body can change, but a high-level lady will always be the high-level lady.

So ladies, may I wish you to be a girl with mind, a woman with attitude, and a lady with class? See you next time!

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🆓 Free download! 36 questions to fall in love printable (+card version!) https://www.ladyrefines.com/36-questions-fall-in-love-printable/ https://www.ladyrefines.com/36-questions-fall-in-love-printable/#respond Sat, 04 Jan 2025 07:01:57 +0000 https://www.ladyrefines.com/?p=62950 Looking for the well-known 36 questions to FALL IN LOVE printable? You’ve come to the right place ladies! According to Reader’s Digest, this 36 fall-in-love quiz is invented by Psychologist Arthur Aron. Besides the love relationship and marriage, these questions actually improve every kind of relationship from friendship to family. And guess what, many people …

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Looking for the well-known 36 questions to FALL IN LOVE printable? You’ve come to the right place ladies!

According to Reader’s Digest, this 36 fall-in-love quiz is invented by Psychologist Arthur Aron.

Besides the love relationship and marriage, these questions actually improve every kind of relationship from friendship to family.

And guess what, many people do use these questions for themselves – that’s like a self-discovery journey!

So yes, regardless of your age and relationship status, these questions are here to improve the quality of your relationship in a magnificent way.

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36 fall in loves questions printables

I am a fan of 36 falls in loves questions and I used it at least 6 times in my life already. That said, I don’t find the traditional printables interactive enough so I thought I created one myself!

Below are some example pages:

 36 questions to fall in love printable
 36 questions to fall in love printable

I created it in this way so that you guys can cut the questions out and put them in the glass jar or box for a game. night.

 36 questions to fall in love printable pdf

Your lover or friend can pick the question randomly instead of you having to go through every question on paper in order – isn’t that way more fun?!

36 fall in loves questions printable cards

After doing a poll in my email list, I figured many of you love the printable card version as well.

Well, there you go!

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 36 questions to fall in love printable card download

The 36 questions to fall in love with!

In case you want to create your own version, copy these questions here!

1. Given the choice of any person in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?

2. Would you wish to be famous? In what way?

3. Before you make a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you’re going to say? Why?

4. What is your definition of a “perfect day”?

5. When was the last time you sang to yourself? Or to someone else?

6. If you were able to live up to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or the body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which one would you want?

7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you’ll die?

8. Name three things you and your partner have in common.

9. What in your life do you feel most grateful for?

The 36 questions to fall in love with

10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?

11. For the next four minutes, tell your partner your life story in as many details as possible.

12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any quality or ability, what would it be?

13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, your future, or anything else, what would you wish to know?

14. Is there something that you’ve been dreaming of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?

15. What do you see as the greatest accomplishment of your life?

16. What do you value most in friendships?

17. What is your most treasured memory?

18. What is your most terrible memory?

19. If you knew that a year from now you would suddenly die, would you change anything about the way you are living now? Why?

20. What does friendship mean to you?

21. What roles do love and affection play in your life?

22. Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five characteristics.

23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel that your childhood was happier than most other people’s?

24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?

25. Make three true “we” statements each.

For example, “We are both in this room feeling … “

26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share … “

27. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know.

28. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.

29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your past.

The 36 questions to fall in love with

30. When was the last time you cried in front of another person? By yourself?

31. Tell your partner something that you like about them already.

32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?

33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone?

Why haven’t you told them yet?

34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire.

After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?

35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?

36. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it.

Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.

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FINAL THOUGHTS:

What do you think about these 36 fall in love question printables? Hope you like it!

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